The sales of anti-depressants are skyrocketing these days. In spite of having more comforts than our ancestors used to have, we are still struggling to find happiness in our lives. Accumulation of wealth is not filling our voids but putting more holes of confusion in our minds. Many successful business models are based on human doubts and fears e.g. insurance companies, retirement plans, anti-stress drugs, cosmetic procedures, body modifications, diet pills, street drugs, pyramid business schemes, quick money gimmicks and the list goes on. People are selling things by convincing you that there is something wrong with you and your life. Honestly, the stuff they are selling is not going to fix it either. Because the core problem is that you do not trust yourself. You do not believe that you are good enough.
Unfortunately, many people will continue to live in misery because they have stopped believing in themselves. The real difference in life will only occur if you tell yourself “I am enough.” Stop looking at yourself as an incomplete puzzle.
If you want to live your life on your own terms, you need to develop an undisputed faith in yourself.
The source of your trust is not others but your own heart. In fact, you can only trust others if you have faith in yourself. Many people doubt the idea of love and success because they do not have a belief. They continue to be besieged by doubts; they cannot hold this idea that they are worthy of love and success. There is a room full of doubts in their head which shadow their everyday decisions. Life cannot be lived with doubts; it has to be experienced completely.
You have to choose between doubts or life.
Ask yourself; Why are you finding it so difficult to trust yourself?
- Is it because of your past failures?
We all have them. Failures are like riddles, we solve them, and we move on.
- Is it because of failures of others?
Every individual has its way of dealing with life. Do not let the failures of others to stop you from trying. You can certainly learn from them and try to do better. This is how scientists and inventors go on inventing new things, they learn from failures – some of their own and many of others.
- Is it because of your surroundings?
If your surroundings are pushing you towards hopelessness, you need to change it. Only people who deserve to be around you are the ones who contribute positivity in your life. There is no use of keeping snakes for the sake of company. It is better to be alone than in a bad company. Loneliness is fear itself. When you are feeling fulfilled in your own company; you will stop looking somewhere else. A few days back, I wrote about how knowing yourself can be the greatest power you can possess!
Let go of fears and make room for faith in your mind
You need to believe that you have a purpose in life. A purpose that is waiting for you to claim it. Your creation was not merely an accident. Out of all the possibilities that Universe could have created; it has chosen to create you.
The hope of everything is going to be alright should be your mantra. Give yourself some time; build a strength of trust. Start manifesting trust today!
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