Flow of Life And Mess We Make Out of It


We hear this often ‘Life is short.’  True story, but miserably, we use this proverb according to our convenience e.g. partying, drinking, cheat meal or enjoying a dessert. How about remembering this quote when we are holding a grudge or keep piling on lies and deceits in our mind? If life is too short, it is short to hate and live under shadows…Isn’t it?

Life goes by so fast, and before we completely comprehend something, things around us change. Sand castles on the beach might have a chance of stability, but life does not. This, my friend, is the beauty of life! Who needs one color when you can go for a rainbow?!

My life has never been simple (just like yours). There was a time when the instability will create chaos in my mind leading to a mess of thoughts and a clutter of emotions. Does that happen it now? Hmm not so often! The question is how do you let go of control and go with the flow?

The trick is simple; I remind myself that I am the flow.

I am not meant to live a caged comfortable life with no challenges. Therefore I will continue to embrace the uncertainty and make the most out of it.  I have associated word change to a list of positive words. The ‘change’ involves evolution, revolution, innovation, rebirth, growth, and progress.

“Try not to resist the changes that come your way. Instead, let life live through you. And do not worry that your life is turning upside down. How do you know that the side you are used to is better than the one to come?” ― Jalaluddin Rumi

Keep an open mind and do not seek comforts. Seek an open sky and let your thoughts spread wings. There is an old advice that Indian parents and grandparents teach their next generations,

If things happen according to your will, it’s good. But if things do not happen according to your will, then it’s even better.”

Don´t fight with the flow. Rather, be a witness, you just watch thoughts floating. My friend ~ Be the Flow


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Jasz Gill is a contemporary writer and poet who writes about emotional intelligence, mindfulness, and compassion. She started writing a blog with Rose Colored Glasses in 2010, a self-help blog to encourage individuals in their journey towards mindfulness. Her writing style is based on turning big ideas into practical wisdom.

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12 Comment

  1. Qisha says: Reply

    Our knowledge is limited but our desires are ruthless.

  2. AJ Sefton says: Reply

    In this instance it was about control. But there is evidence that shows having high expectations encourages people to step up. We are taught this as teachers, to have high expectations of students and see them real their potential. I suppose the secret is having balance in all things.

  3. Candice says: Reply

    I don’t know why I cant find peace anywhere. Thank you for posting.

  4. Kovka Exela says: Reply

    I like it when you said Mess we make out it. Chaos is man made. Peace is natural.

  5. Jackson says: Reply

    I was reading this post and thought you were talking about Me. I realized I am some What of a control freak it because I’m being efficient but because I’m trying to live up to my own expectations. I am living and getting stressed when the outcomes are not how I intended. I am trying to let go and just live before it drives me insane. Your posts are helpful. Thank you

  6. SteveVep says: Reply

    Find out what you need to improve in yourself to become more effective!

  7. gadanienn says: Reply

    Flow is ongoing, neverending cycle.

  8. Alex says: Reply

    Magnificient Post!

  9. Benny says: Reply

    Mind can be a great friend or an enemy…depends on you.

  10. Charlesgop says: Reply

    Great Post!

  11. Michael Hop says: Reply

    Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them – that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like. Lao Tzu

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    Lovely! What really matters is love.

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